That famous line from the movie Jerry McGuire, “you complete me,” has been the predominate attitude for finding a spouse. Now, says family therapist Esther Pearl, the attitude has shifted to I’m already complete. I have my career, my life goals; come help me live out my vision for my life. Do you see what’s wrong? Both are me-centric. Tell you what: Surrender your life to Jesus Christ-be made complete in Him and join Him in His vision for your life-and look for another person doing the same.