Occasionally I get a look from a pastor or church leader like, "Why should we need to start a stepfamily ministry? Well, listen to these stats. The "Sandwich generation" couples-they have at least one parent still living and children of their own--now, for the first time, over half have either a stepparent or stepchild relationship--52%. And for sandwich couples under 55 the rate goes up to 62%. Increasingly blended families are going to be the norm of the future. Blended families, this is us.