I think there's a delicate balance between chasing after someone you love and giving them space to turn around; hounding them can just push them away. I've worked with a lot of heart-broken parents who don't know what to do because one of their kids won't come for visitation. No matter how frustrated you are stay determined to reconcile and close enough to be found when your child turns around. And because waiting is hard, you need lots of prayer. As far as it depends on you, live at peace.