Learning to live with the preferences and quirks of your spouse is just one way of becoming a great partner. But sometimes life makes you unlearn what you've learned. Sabrina discovered after getting remarried that her second husband didn't like his back scratched and that quiet meant content and not unhappy like her first husband. See, if you don't unlearn what you've learned you make the wrong assumption. Stop assuming and start listening. You might have a lot to unlearn.