About one-third of everyone divorcing this year is divorcing a second time. It may be what people choose when they don’t know what else to do, but it’s not what they really want. As it turns out, marriage and the stepfamily that comes with it gets increasingly complex and, therefore, harder to do. People are caught off guard and they quit. The good news is there are solid, practical answers available for the questions stepfamilies ask. You never have to divorce again.