I knew this guy who married a woman with three kids who were used to riding in the front seat with mom. After they married, the stepdad rode in the back seat. Huh. Okay, clearly he needs to ride in the front-we might even let him drive someday. Moving him to the front and her kids to the back, now that's mom's job. But let me also say, the kids must stay a priority in the family. Nobody is neglecting or abandoning them. Yeah, love each other. And love the kids as you lead as a team.