Danny had no idea how hard it would be to love his wife. "She has so many emotional scars from her past. We've been together for nine years and I'm still trying to find a way around her insecurities." Maybe you felt frustrated trying to love someone and not knowing how to help heal their scars. I certainly don't think it's a one-size-fits-all solution for things like this, but I do think a stubborn grace and steadfast love are two of the things that seem to help a lot.