Over the years I've asked that question a lot and it surprises me how many people have never considered it. But think about it. Jesus was raised by his mother and his stepdad, Joseph. Now it's true the circumstances surrounding his birth were definitely different than yours but still if you have a stepparent you can consider Jesus someone who very much understands. So kids talk to him. We call it praying. Tell him your joys, frustrations, worries and concerns. He's listening.