A woman wrote. A counselor pointed she and her husband to this ministry and our resources and it made all the difference with their blended family. "It was like a life-line," she said. "We need to be okay asking for help from the church, so pastors would learn about our need. We don't have it all together, and I'm not willing to risk the plans God has for our family on my pride." Good point. No, there's no shame in asking for directions. And if they only knew, your pastors would want to help.